If your partner has debt problems then you need to know about it, because sooner or later it is going to affect you.  Not opening their mail, or other odd behavior relating to things that are mailed can be a sign that someone is experiencing debt problems.  If someone in your home is not opening their mail then it may be because they don’t want to face up to the problems that they have.  Of course it could just be that they are not very organized!

Other mail-related signs include rushing to get the mail so you don’t get a chance to open it or see it or if you stop seeing statements that used to be left for all to see.

Another give-away is your partner receiving a lot of mysterious calls at home.  When asked they might say that it was “just a salesman” or a wrong number.  Very like the behavior that you might expect from someone with a secret lover!

If you suspect that your partner has a debt problem then the only solution is to ask them about it.  They may be reluctant to speak about it but bringing the issue out into the open (or proving that there is no problem) will be the best thing for your relationship.